Is The Battle For Energy Destroying Your Relationships?
Copyright © Priya Florence Shah
In The Celestine Prophecy, James Redfield writes about the “control
dramas” that people use to draw energy from one another.
Think about it. Every time you interact with another person, there
is a transaction of energy. Depending on the kind of interaction, you
either feel energised or drained after it.
The reason why negative people tend to drain your energy is because
they are operating from their ego.
The ego is all about, “I, me and myself.” It always wants
more. More possessions, more wealth, more pride, more control, more
When you operate from the ego, you tend to draw energy towards yourself,
and away from the other person.
Every time you try to “be right”, every time you try to
prove yourself superior to another person or dominate them, you are
fighting a battle for energy. This battle is the death-knell of many
But when you experience a sense of oneness with the universe, lose
your sense of self and ego and learn to operate from love, there’s
no more need for control dramas.
The Fourth and Fifth Insight in The Celestine Prophecy state that:
“Humans have always felt insecure and disconnected from this
sacred source, and have tried to take energy by dominating each other.
This struggle is responsible for all human conflict.
The only solution is to cultivate a personal reconnection with the
divine, a mystical transformation that fills us with unlimited energy
and love, extends our perception of beauty, and lifts us into a Higher-Self
These insights are not new. For thousands of years, spiritual and energy
healers from the disciplines of Reiki, Tai Chi, Qigong and Yoga, have
understood and used them to draw energy directly from the divine source.
Meditation is the way recommended by spiritual and energy healers,
but a positive attitude and healthy diet are also important.
When you realise that the energy in the universe is infinite and boundless,
and learn how to tap into that divine energy and abundance, there’s
no need for you to draw your energy from another person.
This realisation will completely transform your relationships.
When you learn how to build your resources of energy directly from
the universe, you can even give some to another person who needs it.
You know there’s always more where that came from.