Use The 'Boyfriending Technique' To Get Laid Fast
By John AlexanderAuthor,
"How to Become an
I'm going to reveal an important comfort-building
technique I call "Boyfriending." In a nutshell, there's
something you can do that's usually done ONLY by a woman's boyfriend.
If you do it too, it's a way of getting under a woman's
radar and making her comfortable enough around you so she'll be receptive
to sex without making you wait.
You see, in order for a typical woman to have sex
with a man, she must have feelings of comfort. It is not enough for
her to simply feel attraction for the guy.
Let's say you meet a girl at a 5 PM happy hour. The
two of you hit it off, having a great conversation. She's laughing.
She's interested. You captivate her by telling her fascinating stories
about your life. The two of you have good rapport.
Around 7:30, you get hungry and invite her to get
something to eat. Dinner goes well too. Then dinner ends. Now what?
Around this time, a lot of guys get confused about
how to advance the interaction forward. Clearly the goal is to get
laid, but the roadmap is often muddled.
Usually the night ends with the woman saying something
like, "I had great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!"
Often, the need for comfort is why women like to make
guys wait before sex.
(If the guy's lucky, it might be only three dates,
but with a lot of women, the guy can be made to wait for months.)
Fortunately, there's a way to shortcircuit that barrier.
I call it the "Boyfriending Technique."
If you watch couples who are in close relationships,
you'll notice an interesting phenomenon. The man and woman are extremely
comfortable touching each other, so much so that they'll even do seemingly
gross things like brush sleep ("eye boogers") out of each
It's a behavior that's only done by people who are
completely comfortable around each other. Certainly when you are in
a relationship where you can brush sleep out of a woman's eye, you've
long since passed the point where the two of you are comfortable having
Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological
weapon to make the woman feel more comfortable around you.
In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close
her eyes. Pretend there's an eyelash on the side of her nose, and
make her believe you just brushed it off.
Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave
the restaurant, again tell her to hold still. With your finger, brush
off an imaginary piece of food from her lower lip.
The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is nuclear.
First, it sub-communicates that the two of you are very comfortable
around each other.
Second, it involves you touching her face, bringing
your heads closer together and progressing towards a make out session.
Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip,
you're in fact touching an erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's
lower lip has a high concentration of nerve endings. Stimulating her
lower lip makes her body release sex hormones.
Make the Boyfriending Technique
a part of your dating arsenal, and you'll find more success than ever
before. You may just be having sex within several hours instead of
having to wait several months.
John Alexander is author of "How
to Become an Alpha Male"... a seduction success
guide for men. Learn more advanced tips on how to develop the mind
set and body language of an alpha male.