Why Men Leave Relationships
By Brenda Shoshanna,
Author of Why
According to research conducted by Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.D., Clinical
Therapist and Psychoanalyst, here are amongst the primary reasons men
1. THEY’RE WAITING FOR THE PERFECT PARTNER
Most men have a secret fantasy which whispers that a perfect partner
is somewhere, around the corner, waiting for him. This perfect partner
will not only accept him as he is fully, but he’ll finally be
able to express the parts of himself that are hidden. She’ll bring
out the best in him.
Rather than criticize and demand things from him, the partner will
give unconditionally and fulfill his every need. This fantasy should
not be discounted, as it constitutes much of a man's inner life. This
program explores this fantasy fully, for in it lies the true secrets
of helping a relationship really thrive.
2. THE HEAR A CALL TO ADVENTURE AND GROWTH
As soon as a man sees a relationship as stifling his basic need for
adventure and growth, he will feel himself to be trapped in a prison
without bars. Many men live in this kind of situation, blaming a relationship
for the dilemma he is in.
They do not realize that their true need is to learn how to listen
to and respond to the call of adventure from within. In this program
both men and woman will learn how to show a man how to hear his own
call to adventure and open up his prison doors.
3. THE FEAR OF COMMITMENT
The fear of commitment is widely misunderstood. Commitment is a natural
outcome of being in touch with the best in oneself. It arises inevitably
when a man is living from the truth of who he is.
When a man, however, is in a relationship out of obligation, guilt,
or to fulfill a false sense of self esteem, no real commitment is possible.
In the ebook we discover
the truth about commitment, how, all men really long for it.
4. THE FEAR OF WOMEN WHO CAN'T BE SATISFIED
There are some women who can never be satisfied no matter how much
a man gives or tries to please. Some men become tied up in knots in
these relationships and start to feel terrible about themselves. But
no matter how hard they try, they can’t get the approval they
Some just live for those rare moments when they are acknowledged and
thanked. This section discusses the fundamentals of self-esteem and
self respect. We learn the truth about pleasing another and about pleasing
oneself. Many men fear they can’t satisfy the woman, no mater
how much they give. Men need lots of positive feedback and often feel
it’s hard to get.
Psychologist and Psychoanalyst in private practice for over 20 years,
and an international renown author, Dr. Brenda Shoshanna is also the
resident relationship expert at i.village.com, a professor at Barnes
& Noble University Online, and has offered over 500 talks and workshops
to hospitals, universities and fortune 500 companies on building successful
All of Dr. Shoshanna's work has been for the purpose of helping
people like yourself find the love, support and well-being they desire.
Her ebook, Why
Men Leave, is a revealing, intimate ebook program which
is the result of years of psychological study and field research with
a singular point -- to understand male psychology with regards to relationships,
and derive from men themselves the fears they face, and hopes they have
in a relationship.